You can work on a lot of things in a relationship... except this one thing because it's a deal-breaker for you.
When it comes to a relationship, you look for loyalty, honesty, open-mindedness, compromise, commitment and love in your partner. But even if you have all that, there is one thing you absolutely won't tolerate in your relationship based on your zodiac sign.
You're the kind of person who likes to be decisive about things, especially considering your independence demands it of you. So when your partner isn't clear about what they want, whether it's taking the relationship to the next level or even something as simple as going on an adventure with you, it can be annoying. You hate it, even more, when he allows his mood swings to constantly change his decisions.
You cannot stand someone who thinks they can control and manipulate you. Whether it is emotionally, mentally or physically, you like to be in control of yourself. Your intelligence and acute observations can catch anyone who is trying to force you to do something you don't want to do. When it comes to your partner, if he attempts to bend you to his will, you make sure that he knows he will regret it.
Lack of sense of humor.
You love to laugh and to crack jokes, even if they're cheesy or lousy. You are the type of person who enjoys entertaining people and bringing a smile to someone's face. But if your partner can't handle it or takes offense to every joke you crack, you tend to want to back away. You'd rather be on your own than with someone who doesn't want to accept you just the way you are - quirky and all.
Logic for everything.
You're not opposed to logic but you also prefer a partner who is in touch with their emotional and sentimental side. You want someone who is open to expressing themselves, like you. But having a partner who constantly meets your emotions with logic not only throws you for a loop but it causes tons of misunderstanding and breaks in communication. It makes you feel like you can't trust your own emotions and that's not something you're okay with.
Being the last priority.
For you, making your partner your priority is a given. So when he doesn't give you the same respect and attention, it can make you feel like an outsider in your own relationship. You're not asking for all his time and attention, but all you want is that he actually treats you like you're important. Because if he doesn't, you're not about to take it lying down, and you will walk away.
Lack of ambition
It's in your nature to be goal-oriented and have the drive to achieve all the goals you have set for yourself. You like to surround yourself with people who have the same passion in them to achieve their dreams. It's because of this you can't stand a partner who chooses to be lazy about everything - goals, dreams, the future. With a partner like that, you know that there's always going to be a disconnect between you two.
It's hard for you to tolerate close-minded people. Your thirst for knowledge and learning from others is what helps you grow as a person. But having a partner who is rigid about everything and leaves no room for change only makes you feel suffocated. Because you're constantly evolving as a person, it's only natural that you want a partner who evolves with you.
You absolutely despise it when your partner chooses to hide things or lie to you. After all, you value honesty in people and this sort of behavior just puts you off, especially considering you prefer to be completely transparent with your partner. The moment you catch your partner lying to you, that trust you had - gone. To earn it back would be a Herculean task.
Lack of adventure
You love to travel and explore new corners of everything. Your childlike wonder is what allows you to create special memories and learn new stories of the people you meet. So when you look for a partner, you need someone who can keep up with you. Otherwise, you'll leave them in the dust, especially if he tries to clip your wings. Your partner needs to be one who allows his love for adventure to match yours.
You're the type of person who likes to take it slow. Opening up and trusting another person takes time for you because you know that's the only way to make an informed decision about who you're letting into your life. And this includes your partner. If your partner tries to pressure you into things, you know that the two of you will never last. You will always trust your gut and pace before letting anyone into your heart and life.
Rigidity and lack of unconventional ideas
A rebel is what they call you and you're proud of it. Like the wind, you enjoy going with the flow and being completely yourself. Your unfiltered personality loves to constantly surprise people and you're not big on caring about what others think of you. So it's only fair that you want a partner who can understand and admire that. A partner who is too rigid will only turn you off.
You're the kind of person who allows your emotional side to be expressed. You love to help others and be charitable, not because you want attention but because it's in your nature. So you want a partner who is like you. But if your partner lacks empathy and compassion, you know you won't have any respect for them because you want to be with someone who is as giving as you are. An insensitive or cold partner is forever off your list.